It is an indisputable fact that kids learn more by sight than ears. That is, they learn whatever you do irrespective of what you tell them. Imagine what the mood of your children will be when they always see you quarrel with your spouse all the time.The rest of this article is a true life story (summary)
I remember when i was a kid that i always feel bad whenever i see or over heard my parents exchanging words. It hurts me to the point that i learnt to start crying as soon as i sense an unease in the atmosphere. This discovery was a coincidence. It all started on the day i got insured in a bid to avoid seeing them quarrelling. Though i was insured but it immediately dawned on me that i can get their attention by crying. Big thanks to that sharp object that removed one of my toes.
My grade and that of my siblings in school all improved as a result of relative peace between my parents. Not only did our grades in school improve, we somehow started new kind of relationship amongst us. people around us started being jealous of us and eager to find the secret behind our new found peace and love. Today by the special grace of God, i am an accountant and a motivator because the motivating power of love got on me earlier in my life
We all long to have happy and prosperous children; but not all of us are willing to pay the price of raising the kind of children we all desire. One of the price to pay is to tolerate one another in our marriage. This we don't only do to inspire and motivate our children into action but to make our creator who has placed those children in our custody.
I will like to sound warning note here. REMEMBER THAT POSTERITY NEVER LIES we will definitely reap whatever we sow "up bringing of our children"
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Thursday, August 7, 2008
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